How about a dreamy beach affair for your Fourth of July weekend? Tami and Dan wed in a beautiful, intimate destination wedding at the picture-perfect La Amada hotel in Playa Mujeres, Mexico. The bride looked boho-chic in her gorgeous Alix & Kelly gown and we love that the couple chose to do a trash the dress session together the day after they said their “I do’s.” Elizabeth Lloyd was on-site to watch all of the beautiful memories unfold and since we’ve never seen such a smiley bride and groom, we think she captured them just perfectly.

Lovely: Tell us about THE dress and what inspired your look.
Tami: Since I was getting married on the beach in Mexico, I wanted something light and flowy. Many of the flowier dresses I had seen had empire waists, which are not very flattering on. My style tends to be slightly boho-chic but I wanted to stay away from anything that looked hippie-ish. I knew I needed something more fitted. The selection at Lovely was amazing. I could have bought any one of about seven dresses there and been happy. When I tried the Penelope on though, I knew that was it. I fell in love with the details of the braided straps and the pleating on the skirt. The flowers gave it a bohemian look, but like the rest of the details, they were very subtle and delicate. I knew I didn’t want a veil in case it was windy on the beach (which it was) and the flower hairpiece matched perfectly. I added some personal style with a chunky turquoise bracelet from Anthropologie, which also provided my something blue. I loved the way it all came together and was so incredibly comfortable all day and night.

Lovely: What were the most important details to pulling off your dream wedding?
Tami: The location was definitely key! Dan and I both knew we wanted a destination wedding but finding the perfect location was a challenge. We wanted a boutique hotel but with over 80 guests, most of the ones we found were too small. Most importantly, it had to be an easy flight for our guests coming from the east coast, and the room rates had to be reasonable. I’m sure everyone thought I was being way too picky but we wound up finding the perfect location. (Thanks Google!) La Amada in Playa Mujeres, Mexico fit the bill on all counts. 25 minutes north of Cancun in what used to be a small fishing village, the hotel was only a year old and both the rooms and grounds are beautiful. We were able to get amazing room rates since it was off-season. Our guests made a vacation out of it and everyone raved about how perfect it was. Aside from location, photos and music were most important to us. Elizabeth Lloyd, our photographer, and I have a mutual friend and from the first time I saw her photos, I knew I wanted her to photograph my wedding. We were thrilled when we found out she was available that weekend, and we couldn’t be happier with the results. We did a day after “Trash the Dress” session with her, which we were hesitant about but we’re so glad she convinced us. Some of our favorite pictures are from that day and we were so much more relaxed because we didn’t care if we got dirty or wet! Finally, the music…Dan and I are both huge music lovers and music was an important part of our wedding. As part of our vows, we read lyrics from Bob Dylan’s “Wedding Song” to one another. We included song requests on our wedding invitations for our guests, which made receiving the RSVPs that much more fun. We made playlists for our welcome dinner and while the guests were arriving at the ceremony, and had a mariachi band for the cocktail hour. We hired a DJ that the hotel recommended for the reception but downloaded the music we wanted on a hard drive to ensure he’d play the mix of indie rock, hip hop and classic rock we wanted. It was perfect and we danced the entire night!

Lovely: What was the most memorable moment?
Tami: One of our favorite moments was seeing each other for the first time before the ceremony. It was just the two of us at a gazebo on the beach right next to the spot we would be getting married…with our photographer there to capture it all, of course. We had already had five amazing days in Mexico with our families and friends leading up to the wedding, and we couldn’t imagine it getting any better. To see each other all dressed up for the first time and knowing we were going to be married in less than an hour, was such a special moment.
Lovely: If you could give future brides any advice, what would it be?
Tami: One thing Dan and I did which I am so happy about is that before the wedding we had agreed to stay together as much as possible throughout the cocktail hour and reception. Even though we celebrated with our families and friends, it was always the two of us!
Most importantly, have fun! Our whole wedding weekend was one big party just the way we hoped it would be. Your wedding really should be the best day of your life so enjoy every second.
DRESS: “Penelope” from Alix & Kelly (purchased at Lovely!)
HAIR ACCESSORY: Lo Boheme (purchased at Lovely!)
SHOES: Kate Spade
BRACELET & EARRINGS: Anthropologie
PURSE: My great-grandmother’s vintage
PHOTOGRAPHER: Elizabeth Lloyd
WEDDING COORDINATOR: Ileana Romero at La Amada
MAKEUP: Beth Roberts